I used to do readings for folks at the drop of a hat. I could use the money, or I wanted the practice, or I just wanted to play with my cards again. A few summers ago, though, I found myself dreading the readings. I was tired, I’d been sick, and my life had gotten really busy. I’d also found that I was the Tarot Monkey at parties. I always had a deck with me, of course, so whenever I’d go to a friend’s house I would end up hearing, “Hey, Melissa reads tarot cards…” The rest of the party was me doing “Just one more reading.” 

In short, I was burned out. I was starting to resent the cards that I adored. So, I decided to take a break. In May, I put down my cards and closed up my website. I didn’t touch a deck of cards for three months. It was awesome. I didn’t miss it and I filled the time with my family and friends, reading books and taking naps. It was fantastic.

After the three months, I hung my shingle out again and found that I was once again in LOVE with the cards. My readings were super accurate and energizing, and I loved reconnecting with my clients.

In order to keep this from happening again, I’m careful to schedule myself a few nights a week and at least one weekend a month as reading free. It gives me time to recharge my batteries and insures that I won’t want to run from my cards again. 

The Point – don’t be afraid to walk away from your cards if you need to. They’ll be there when you come back. 

xo Lis

Melissa Cynova

Melissa Cynova is an author living just outside of St. Louis, Mo. She herds five black cats, two dogs, and a tortoise named Phil. In her free time she likes to watch Law and Order: SVU and connect with her people. You can book a reading with Melissa at www.melissacynova.com. Also, chinga la migra.

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